bookish reader, writer and amateur photographer; lifelong roleplayer, photoshop-fairy, gamer, geek and nerd; artsy brat, music lover, cybersocial-butterfly, city gypsy, night owl. i spend more time speaking to people i can't see than ones i can, because people i've never met face to face know me better than people who've known me my most of my life. being family is about the bond, not about the blood.